Love the man you like!

Reading: Genesis 2:20-25

"But for Adam no suitable helper was found. So the Lord God ... made a woman" (Gen 2:20,22)

It is not easy to be the kind of wife the Bible intends you to be. Nowhere is a woman’s spiritual fibre tested more. If you understand your husband better, it will be easier for you

8. He likes friends and entertainment.
Now and then he may like to go out with his male companions for a game or pastime. Don’t make a hue and cry about it. If you
have your own circle of friends you won’t feel left out. If he brings in his friends, entertain them with refreshments, so your husband can be proud of you. David loved Michal; but he needed a friend like Jonathan whose love to him was "wonderful, surpassing the love of women." When families go out, be sure to join the gang. Don’t be a spoil-sport.

9. He loves his parents and relatives.
Maintain a good relationship with his parents. Do not create misunderstanding between mother and son. Countless parents have
lost a son instead of gaining a daughter. Become one with his family. Give gifts, though not big. When he wants to invite them over or entertain them, do your best. Never mind him spending time with them swapping old stories, though you may have to be a silent spectator. Though it would have been hard on Sarah to live with a woman like Lot’s wife, she took it up as a challenge till such a time when Abraham himself wanted them to move out.

10. He likes to have his wife.
He loves food but hates to see you always in the kitchen. He loves a clean house but he prefers a home. He loves his children
but is chagrined when you devote all your time to them. He wants you to be intelligent and talented but becomes moody when you get immersed in reading or become outgoing at his expense. When he comes home tired he needs twinkling eyes and smiling lips to welcome him, tender hands to fix him a coffee, soft words to comfort him of the problems he faced and soothing fingers to apply balm for his aching head. His crying need is for a wife than for anything else. Be available to your husband as a wife.
Marriage has two great gifts to offer you — Someone to love and someone who loves you. Make the best of both!

 

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Reading: Genesis 2:20-25

"But for Adam no suitable helper was found. So the Lord God ... made a woman" (Gen 2:20,22)

It is not easy to be the kind of wife the Bible intends you to be. Nowhere is a woman’s spiritual fibre tested more. If you understand your husband better, it will be easier for you

8. He likes friends and entertainment.
Now and then he may like to go out with his male companions for a game or pastime. Don’t make a hue and cry about it. If you
have your own circle of friends you won’t feel left out. If he brings in his friends, entertain them with refreshments, so your husband can be proud of you. David loved Michal; but he needed a friend like Jonathan whose love to him was "wonderful, surpassing the love of women." When families go out, be sure to join the gang. Don’t be a spoil-sport.

9. He loves his parents and relatives.
Maintain a good relationship with his parents. Do not create misunderstanding between mother and son. Countless parents have
lost a son instead of gaining a daughter. Become one with his family. Give gifts, though not big. When he wants to invite them over or entertain them, do your best. Never mind him spending time with them swapping old stories, though you may have to be a silent spectator. Though it would have been hard on Sarah to live with a woman like Lot’s wife, she took it up as a challenge till such a time when Abraham himself wanted them to move out.

10. He likes to have his wife.
He loves food but hates to see you always in the kitchen. He loves a clean house but he prefers a home. He loves his children
but is chagrined when you devote all your time to them. He wants you to be intelligent and talented but becomes moody when you get immersed in reading or become outgoing at his expense. When he comes home tired he needs twinkling eyes and smiling lips to welcome him, tender hands to fix him a coffee, soft words to comfort him of the problems he faced and soothing fingers to apply balm for his aching head. His crying need is for a wife than for anything else. Be available to your husband as a wife.
Marriage has two great gifts to offer you — Someone to love and someone who loves you. Make the best of both!

 

  Address for Correspondence Contributions

Dr. Lilian Stanley
13 Church Colony
Vellore 632006, India
 +91 9843511943
  lilianstanley@gmail.com

Blessing Youth Mission

Blessing Youth Mission
13 Church Colony
Vellore 632006, India
 +91-416-2242943, +91-416-2248943
  hq@bymonline.org
  www.bymonline.org

For Donation & Contributions...

Home & NRE donors

Name: Blessing Youth Mission
Account Type: Current Account
A/c No.: 37268642054
Bank: State Bank of India
Branch: Siruthozhil,Vellore - 632 006
IFSC No.: SBIN0007274

Gulf Donors

A/c Name: T.Dickson Daniel Moses
Account Type: Saving Account
A/c No.: 35374362080
Bank: State Bank of India
Branch: Siruthozhil,Vellore - 632 006
IFSF: SBIN0007274

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