Know your Husband!
Reading: Song of Solomon 7:1-9
“How beautiful you are and how pleasing, my love, with your delights” (SS 7:6)
Let’s continue our study of a husband’s nature. Most problems are because he is a man and you are a woman. So what is a man? —
5. He likes to be petted and pampered.
He coddles like a baby when his temperature goes up to 99°F and expects his food to be brought to the bed. Do it with pleasure.
Don’t fall into the dull routine of cooking, washing and cleaning.Think of novel ways to surprise your husband. A compliment lifts
him up. Criticizing his siesta irritates him. On the other hand a suggestion to rest because he looks tired may help him relax (SS
3:5). Try an occasional nocturnal rambling with him.
6. He likes a cheerful companion.
Be a good listener. Don’t roar like an inferno. Neither stage a loud silence. You may win the argument but lose your husband.
Too much of agreement also kills a chat. Learn pleasant conversation. Encourage his ideas. Don’t kick at his ego. Let him
feel superior when he talks to you. When tension mounts in an argument, diffuse it by giving in wisely. The Song of Solomon (4:11) speaks of a wife’s pleasant conversation. No hints, no puzzles, no irks. Just sweet! Don’t be too time-conscious or duty-conscious when you are relaxing with him.
7. He likes a full sex life.
Sex is a dominant force in his life. Often a wife wonders why he needs so much sex. This leaves the husband feeling that he is too
sexy. Men have strong sexual drive. That’s how they are created.If you have problems, it is not wrong to read clean and educative
books on sex. One retired gentleman wanted prayer for deliverance from lust for his wife! There is nothing so called. Isaac was sixty when his sons were born. When they were adults, he was still caressing Rebekah (Gen 26:8). Sex is not a treat for a husband who has behaved himself throughout the day. It is his matrimonial right (1 Cor 7:4a, 5a). In fact you should be happy if he desires physical intimacy, because it’s a man’s way of loving, thanking and celebrating! The best romance is inside marriage. Build up a special love bond with your husband. Sex is an elixir that makes life a never-ending adventure. Any temporary inability or inconvenience must be politely explained.
Dr. Lilian Stanley
13 Church Colony
Vellore 632006, India
+91 9843511943
lilianstanley@gmail.com
Blessing Youth Mission
13 Church Colony
Vellore 632006, India
+91-416-2242943, +91-416-2248943
hq@bymonline.org
www.bymonline.org
Click here for more options
To buy books written by Dr. Lilian Stanley, kindly reach to us in the follwing address
Blessing Literature Centre
21/11 West Coovam River Road,
Chintadripet,
Chennai 600 002, India.
+91-44-28450411, 8806270699
blc@bymonline.org
Know your Husband!
Reading: Song of Solomon 7:1-9
“How beautiful you are and how pleasing, my love, with your delights” (SS 7:6)
Let’s continue our study of a husband’s nature. Most problems are because he is a man and you are a woman. So what is a man? —
5. He likes to be petted and pampered.
He coddles like a baby when his temperature goes up to 99°F and expects his food to be brought to the bed. Do it with pleasure.
Don’t fall into the dull routine of cooking, washing and cleaning.Think of novel ways to surprise your husband. A compliment lifts
him up. Criticizing his siesta irritates him. On the other hand a suggestion to rest because he looks tired may help him relax (SS
3:5). Try an occasional nocturnal rambling with him.
6. He likes a cheerful companion.
Be a good listener. Don’t roar like an inferno. Neither stage a loud silence. You may win the argument but lose your husband.
Too much of agreement also kills a chat. Learn pleasant conversation. Encourage his ideas. Don’t kick at his ego. Let him
feel superior when he talks to you. When tension mounts in an argument, diffuse it by giving in wisely. The Song of Solomon (4:11) speaks of a wife’s pleasant conversation. No hints, no puzzles, no irks. Just sweet! Don’t be too time-conscious or duty-conscious when you are relaxing with him.
7. He likes a full sex life.
Sex is a dominant force in his life. Often a wife wonders why he needs so much sex. This leaves the husband feeling that he is too
sexy. Men have strong sexual drive. That’s how they are created.If you have problems, it is not wrong to read clean and educative
books on sex. One retired gentleman wanted prayer for deliverance from lust for his wife! There is nothing so called. Isaac was sixty when his sons were born. When they were adults, he was still caressing Rebekah (Gen 26:8). Sex is not a treat for a husband who has behaved himself throughout the day. It is his matrimonial right (1 Cor 7:4a, 5a). In fact you should be happy if he desires physical intimacy, because it’s a man’s way of loving, thanking and celebrating! The best romance is inside marriage. Build up a special love bond with your husband. Sex is an elixir that makes life a never-ending adventure. Any temporary inability or inconvenience must be politely explained.
Dr. Lilian Stanley
13 Church Colony
Vellore 632006, India
+91 9843511943
lilianstanley@gmail.com
Blessing Youth Mission
13 Church Colony
Vellore 632006, India
+91-416-2242943, +91-416-2248943
hq@bymonline.org
www.bymonline.org
Click here for more options
To buy books written by Dr. Lilian Stanley, kindly reach to us in the follwing address
Blessing Literature Centre
21/11 West Coovam River Road,
Chintadripet,
Chennai 600 002, India.
+91-44-28450411, Mob:8806270699
blc@bymonline.org
