Am I a numskull?

Reading: Genesis 30:1-11

 

“Well done, good and faithful servant, enter into the joy of your Master”  (Mt 25:21)

 

The  Lord  said  to Noah,  “Go into  the  ark, you and  your whole family, because I have found you righteous in this generation” (Gen

7:1). God found Noah righteous, He spoke  to Noah,  He told Noah to

go into the ark  with his family  and God remembered Noah.  “Where am I in the picture?” must have been the question of Mrs. Noah. I also  have  a name, I too lived a godly  life,  I certainly played  my part well. Then why am I called “Noah’s  wife” and why am I treated like a nobody?

 

This  is the feeling many  wives of ministers of God hide in their bosom.   The  pastor is  invited, honoured, praised and  people sometimes don’t even look at his wife’s face who is by his side. Many wives  are  looked  upon  as burdens if they  go with  their husbands.

 

If you are the wife of a minister of God and treated like trash, I want to encourage you today.  God has called you by name (Isa 45:9). He knows your name. You are  not  a nobody  to Him.  You are  His precious daughter. He  has  entrusted the  care  of His  servant in your hands. As much as Mary was  important to the upbringing of Jesus, so is your job honourable.

 

A servant of God needs nutritious food.  So  make cooking a pleasure. He needs good rest and  time  to prepare for his ministry; so relieve  him  wherever possible by taking extra load on you. He needs a good companion and  friend to confide  and  unburden his heart. Be a friend who can listen, encourage and correct. He needs a  wife  for  lifetime love  and  companionship. Be  a  pleasure and presentable person to live with. All the people blessed Boaz saying, “The Lord make the woman who is coming to your house like Rachel and Leah,  the  two who built  the  house of Israel” (Ruth  4:11). Had they  forgotten Bilhah and  Zilpah? May be. Yet their sons  too will be seated on thrones, wearing crowns of gold, around the throne of God (Rev 4:4). God is not partial!

 

You may  not  be  a Priscilla but  be  involved  in  God’s work  as much as you can,  in whatever way you can.  There is no partiality with  God. If God gives  an M.Phil  degree for your husband’s good ministry, He will give you a Ph.D. for being an excellent housewife, wife and mother. You don’t need to be a preacher. Do what God has called  you to do, to the  best of your ability.

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Reading: Genesis 30:1-11

 

“Well done, good and faithful servant, enter into the joy of your Master”  (Mt 25:21)

 

The  Lord  said  to Noah,  “Go into  the  ark, you and  your whole family, because I have found you righteous in this generation” (Gen

7:1). God found Noah righteous, He spoke  to Noah,  He told Noah to

go into the ark  with his family  and God remembered Noah.  “Where am I in the picture?” must have been the question of Mrs. Noah. I also  have  a name, I too lived a godly  life,  I certainly played  my part well. Then why am I called “Noah’s  wife” and why am I treated like a nobody?

 

This  is the feeling many  wives of ministers of God hide in their bosom.   The  pastor is  invited, honoured, praised and  people sometimes don’t even look at his wife’s face who is by his side. Many wives  are  looked  upon  as burdens if they  go with  their husbands.

 

If you are the wife of a minister of God and treated like trash, I want to encourage you today.  God has called you by name (Isa 45:9). He knows your name. You are  not  a nobody  to Him.  You are  His precious daughter. He  has  entrusted the  care  of His  servant in your hands. As much as Mary was  important to the upbringing of Jesus, so is your job honourable.

 

A servant of God needs nutritious food.  So  make cooking a pleasure. He needs good rest and  time  to prepare for his ministry; so relieve  him  wherever possible by taking extra load on you. He needs a good companion and  friend to confide  and  unburden his heart. Be a friend who can listen, encourage and correct. He needs a  wife  for  lifetime love  and  companionship. Be  a  pleasure and presentable person to live with. All the people blessed Boaz saying, “The Lord make the woman who is coming to your house like Rachel and Leah,  the  two who built  the  house of Israel” (Ruth  4:11). Had they  forgotten Bilhah and  Zilpah? May be. Yet their sons  too will be seated on thrones, wearing crowns of gold, around the throne of God (Rev 4:4). God is not partial!

 

You may  not  be  a Priscilla but  be  involved  in  God’s work  as much as you can,  in whatever way you can.  There is no partiality with  God. If God gives  an M.Phil  degree for your husband’s good ministry, He will give you a Ph.D. for being an excellent housewife, wife and mother. You don’t need to be a preacher. Do what God has called  you to do, to the  best of your ability.

  Address for Correspondence Contributions

Dr. Lilian Stanley
13 Church Colony
Vellore 632006, India
 +91 9843511943
  lilianstanley@gmail.com

Blessing Youth Mission

Blessing Youth Mission
13 Church Colony
Vellore 632006, India
 +91-416-2242943, +91-416-2248943
  hq@bymonline.org
  www.bymonline.org

For Donation & Contributions...

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Name: Blessing Youth Mission
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A/c No.: 37268642054
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IFSC No.: SBIN0007274

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A/c Name: T.Dickson Daniel Moses
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A/c No.: 35374362080
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Branch: Siruthozhil,Vellore - 632 006
IFSF: SBIN0007274

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