Decisions of a Grandmother

1. I DECIDE to stop praying, “Lord, please take me.”  God knows when to take me and He needs no guidance. I decide to live happy and fulfil His will as long as He keeps me on this earth.

2. I DECIDE not to keep on talking about my illnesses. I decide to tell God my weakness. I will not elaborate my problems to others and waste their time. I decide not to eat as I please rather stick to my diet.

3. I DECIDE not to murmur. I will not be upset when people don’t respect me, do not give heed to my counsel or do not give me responsibilities. I will not get angry when someone tells me to “please be quiet” when I try to help them. I decide not to criticise anyone.

4. I DECIDE not to be troublesome to others. I trouble others because I worry too much about myself. I will try my best to help others forgetting my own needs. I decide to take care of myself as much as I can.

5. I DECIDE to pray more. My responsibilities are less but the time at my disposal is more. Many are those who wail, “I have no time and I have so many responsibilities.” So I praise God for this grace and decide to pray for the family, church, unreached souls and ministries. I decide not to give myself to old wives’ tales.

6. I DECIDE to tell stories to my grand children and other children. I decide to relate to them Bible stories one by one as enthusiastically as possible.

7. I DECIDE to be as useful as possible to my children. I decide to help them if requested to teach the children, engage them in profitable pass-time recreation, take care of the house in their absence, and so on.

8. I DECIDE to get a large letter Bible to read rather than neglect the Bible for poor eyesight.

9. I DECIDE to use my properties wisely. I decide to distribute my legacy according to the heart of God. I will give to God not less than one tenth. I will divide to my children without partiality. I decide to entrust the property to godly and wise hands.

10. I DECIDE not to be afraid of my future and death. I decide to face them courageously. Whether alone or in my home or shuttled from one child’s home to the other or in a old people’s home, however God may lead, I encourge myself in the Lord to manage. I decide to glorify God by praising Him in everything, sick bed or weakness, knowing that the gateway to life is death.

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Decisions of a Grandmother

1. I DECIDE to stop praying, “Lord, please take me.”  God knows when to take me and He needs no guidance. I decide to live happy and fulfil His will as long as He keeps me on this earth.

2. I DECIDE not to keep on talking about my illnesses. I decide to tell God my weakness. I will not elaborate my problems to others and waste their time. I decide not to eat as I please rather stick to my diet.

3. I DECIDE not to murmur. I will not be upset when people don’t respect me, do not give heed to my counsel or do not give me responsibilities. I will not get angry when someone tells me to “please be quiet” when I try to help them. I decide not to criticise anyone.

4. I DECIDE not to be troublesome to others. I trouble others because I worry too much about myself. I will try my best to help others forgetting my own needs. I decide to take care of myself as much as I can.

5. I DECIDE to pray more. My responsibilities are less but the time at my disposal is more. Many are those who wail, “I have no time and I have so many responsibilities.” So I praise God for this grace and decide to pray for the family, church, unreached souls and ministries. I decide not to give myself to old wives’ tales.

6. I DECIDE to tell stories to my grand children and other children. I decide to relate to them Bible stories one by one as enthusiastically as possible.

7. I DECIDE to be as useful as possible to my children. I decide to help them if requested to teach the children, engage them in profitable pass-time recreation, take care of the house in their absence, and so on.

8. I DECIDE to get a large letter Bible to read rather than neglect the Bible for poor eyesight.

9. I DECIDE to use my properties wisely. I decide to distribute my legacy according to the heart of God. I will give to God not less than one tenth. I will divide to my children without partiality. I decide to entrust the property to godly and wise hands.

10. I DECIDE not to be afraid of my future and death. I decide to face them courageously. Whether alone or in my home or shuttled from one child’s home to the other or in a old people’s home, however God may lead, I encourge myself in the Lord to manage. I decide to glorify God by praising Him in everything, sick bed or weakness, knowing that the gateway to life is death.

  Address for Correspondence Contributions

Dr. Lilian Stanley
13 Church Colony
Vellore 632006, India
 +91 9843511943
  lilianstanley@gmail.com

Blessing Youth Mission

Blessing Youth Mission
13 Church Colony
Vellore 632006, India
 +91-416-2242943, +91-416-2248943
  hq@bymonline.org
  www.bymonline.org

For Donation & Contributions...

Home & NRE donors

Name: Blessing Youth Mission
Account Type: Current Account
A/c No.: 37268642054
Bank: State Bank of India
Branch: Siruthozhil,Vellore - 632 006
IFSC No.: SBIN0007274

Gulf Donors

A/c Name: T.Dickson Daniel Moses
Account Type: Saving Account
A/c No.: 35374362080
Bank: State Bank of India
Branch: Siruthozhil,Vellore - 632 006
IFSF: SBIN0007274

Click here for more options

  Blessing Literature Centre

To buy books written by Dr. Lilian Stanley, kindly reach to us in the follwing address

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Chintadripet,
Chennai 600 002, India.
 +91-44-28450411, Mob:8806270699
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