It was a whirlwind romance - all moon-beams and star dust; until one day in a moment of madness, they succumbed to each other’s charms. That was the last cruise of their love boat. The world seemed to crash around her when she found herself pregnant and he, refusing to accept responsibility. The only way out was abortion, he said. There were endless recriminations and bitterness with the inevitable split. She decided to have the baby against all odds; but he walked out of her life, forever, scot free. She had to carry the stamp of ‘unwed mother’ because of that one unguarded moment; but was he not an unwed father too? What a tragic end to a story that had the markings of a fairy tale!
Think!
It is time for young people to sit up and ponder the question of premarital sex (PMS). Take this story for example. Some may condemn the boy for his cowardice. Some may call the girl foolish for not considering abortion. But these are all peripheral issues. The central issue is something else. They had violated a basic moral and ethical code, that sexual expression is the privilege of the married. If they had waited a little longer...!
Until some years ago premarital sex was outrightly condemned as sin and anyone who had sex before marriage was looked down upon. Therefore there was a fear in the hearts of youth. Even if they secretly committed the sin they felt guilty. But days are fast changing. Young people study together, play together and even stay together. PMS is becoming more and more common. The fear and the shame are going away. Soon the guilt will also be off and young people will be asking why they should wait.
Sex is God’s Idea
God created sex. He created man as male and female and made them attractive to each other, for pleasure and procreation. Since it was created by God, sex cannot be sin. But any gift of God can be misused. Eating is not sin. But gluttony is. Much the same way God has attached responsibility to sex.
Science and Sex
Science has made it easier for the unmarried to indulge in sex without the fear off pregnancy. The pill and the condom have taken the weight off the pressure cooker. More and more youth seem to think that the responsibility part of it can be hacked off and the pleasure enjoyed, now that pregnancy can be avoided. Just because conception can be avoided, PMS does not become a cleaner act.
If you are relying on family planning measures to avoid pregnancy, you are on very shaky ground. They are not fool-proof. They can fail anytime. Neither is abortion a solution. It has its own dangers and can even cost you your life. Abortion is murder.
VenerealDiseases
Youth should be aware of the dangers of venereal diseases (VD) which even the condom cannot always prevent. These are sexually transmitted diseases manifesting by way of white discharge, ulcers in the genitalia, blood in the urine, difficulty in passing urine, swelling of the lymph glands in the loin, fever, malaise and other symptoms. Some diseases like syphilis can affect the heart, brain and the whole body. Some remain symptomless and dormant for a variable period of time. You would have read or seen about the dangers of AIDS. Youth who have casual sex and discover any of these symptoms feel trapped. They are ashamed to go to anyone for help. The danger of some of the diseases is that they heal outwardly without treatment but continue to spread inwardly, giving a false hope that all is fine. Such a person will look healthy but be transmitting the disease. There is no cure for some of these diseases.
Donot bedeceived!
Youthhood is such an innocent period that you tend to trust the person who makes advances to you. Especially if your home offers no love, you tend to fall into the open arms of the first lover who comes your way. Then one day you face the hard choice: “If you love me, come to bed with me.” If you refuse, he may leave you. You are made to believe he will marry you and make you his queen. But this is an emotional tactic. Deflowering innocent virgins is a game for some boys. Every conquest they make is another feather to their already loaded caps. But how soul- destroying it is to the girl when she discovers that he was simply having fun with her. Worse still to know that she was one of his many victims. Remember, virginity once lost is forever lost. You cannot get it back.
Why only playboys? There are too many playgirls who will sell their souls for a sex trip. Boys should keep away from such wide-mouthed bimbos.
So always be on guard, and never let anyone catch you with your defences down. It will cause you eternal remorse and regret. Would you like to have the looks of a man without regrets or would you walk the long corridor of shame?
Pandora’s Box
Pandora’s parents left a box at home and left warning her not to open it. But her curiosity got the better of her. She was stung by the bees. Parents protect you. Others warn you. But one day out of curiosity when you fall for it, the bees of VD, remorse, guilt, unwanted pregnancy, shame, fear, etc., sting you and you wish (too late!) you hadn’t opened the box. Wait till the day of marriage and you’ll find honey inside.
Chicken Friends
There seems to be always a group around you to push you into premature sex - friends who want to watch the fun, who would call you a chicken if you don’t entice a girl or boy. Who is chicken? The one who does the easier thing or the one who stands the tempest of temptations? They won’t dare call you so, ten years later, when you are decently married! Keep away from such chicken friends.
Bewareof Agents!
There are older girls who would take ‘little’ girls by the arms and introduce them to boys. Some think they are doing an angel’s job by carrying letters back and
forth. There are fashionable ladies who promise ‘jobs’ for college girls on the other side of the country! Beware, teens and even preteens!
God’s Feeling
It is good to know what God feels about PMS. The Bible calls it fornication. Fornication is sexual immorality where at least one partner is unmarried. The command is straightforward. “Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body” (1
Cor 6:18). “Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers
God will judge” (Heb 13:4). “Fornicators...shall not inherit the Kingdom of God” (1 Cor
6:9,10).
Men, manlymen!
Many young people feel it is impossible to wait till marriage to have sex. It is a lie of the devil. Jacob loved Rachel. They lived closeby. Both were shepherding. They had every opportunity to have sex. But they waited seven years to consummate their love (Gen 29:20,21). Joseph of Bible fame withstood the advances of an amorous woman. She was his employer’s wife who tried to woo him with her sensuality. But Joseph did not agree to be with her and ran out when she pulled him (39:1-12). Joseph, the foster father of Jesus is an adorable example of self- control (Mt 1:18-25). He had Mary with him, but abstained from sex till Jesus was born. Are these men chicken and sissies? They are the true manly men! A sissy buckles under pressure. A man stands for his convictions. The model lives of many youth and couples today, like lotuses on a dirty pond, is proof enough that a pure life is still possible.
God does not give us impossible commands. Along with his commands He gives us grace to keep them. If we help ourselves, He helps us.
The Great Escape
PMS is a common temptation which presents itself to every young person. But God will never allow us to be tempted beyond our ability. Any temptation has an “IN” door and an “OUT” door (1 Cor 10:13). Best is to avoid the entrance. But if by chance you find yourself ‘in,’ then look for the “Emergency Exit.”
Paul offers a simple and easy solution to escape PMS. Get married! If you are old enough and you can take care of a wife and children, if you have decided on the person and fear you may commit sin, then get married (1 Cor 7:2). When this is not possible, you need to think of other ways of escape.
By systematic reading of the Bible and regular praying, your mind learns to hate PMS and to avoid it. You learn to cooperate with God. Tackle one day at a time. God’s grace is new every morning.
Have a goal in life. Find a worthy cause to live. Channelize your thinking and energy in that direction. That will keep you from the pitfall of living in a fantasy world. Too much of fantasizing may push you off the edge.
Nowadays there is no shortage for films, filmsongs, video cassettes, novels, etc., which are full of filth and obscenities. Avoid these. They are at your doorstep. Kick them away. Avoid friends who enjoy talking and seeing filth. They will stir up the passions in you that one day may become too much to bottle up.
Decide today to say ‘No’ to PMS. Sooner or later you are going to face the temptation. You may be too hot at that moment to think and decide. So prepare your answer today and be ready with it.
Don’t develop intimate relationships with the opposite sex and never be alone with one. A boy and a girl alone are like gunpowder and fire. Don’t go to the closeness of producing a spark. It may end up in an explosion that will wreck your life. Avoid physical intimacy. In spite of all the warnings, often youth end up in defeat and mess up their lives because they give too much weight to their selfcontrol. Don’t trust yourself so much.
The fear that your lover may ditch you should never melt your heart for his pleas for sex. If for that reason he leaves you, congratulate yourself on a lucky escape. He is not worthy to be your partner for a lifetime. Further, how sure are you that they have not had sex with another person?
Keep yourself at a respectable distance from married people also. They are not immune to temptations. Boys have fallen in love with wives, and girls with husbands. It is a futile love leading you nowhere. You can never be legally married to a married person. You will be called a ‘keep’ or by a still dirtier name. Your children will be illegitimate. You cannot publicly go out together, and you face the fury of the angry spouse.
Becourageous!
You should understand that you have the right to refuse sex. Do not be threatened into a sexual relationship. Be bold enough to inform your parents or a trustworthy person if someone threatens you.
Innocent girls have been raped, sometimes repeatedly by their own relatives or friends, and parents have failed to understand their expression of despair. If any man, woman, boy or girl makes you uncomfortable, tell your parents openly in a way they can understand. They should not think you are fussing. There is no shame in it.
Girls and boys are forced to write to someone at a distance crying for help, because parents are not close to their hearts. Nowadays since both the parents are working, teenagers are alone at home and so many things are happening. Be careful when you are alone at home or tell your parents to leave you in a safer place.
Girls should guard themselves against rape. Many, who could have escaped, succumbed because fear paralysed them. Scream and shout if help is near.
Rape victims need not feel guilty. You are not responsible for what happened (Dt
22:25-27). You were helpless. Never let a rape defeat you. Rise above it and take charge of your life.
If you have the courage and the support of parents and friends, then go to the law, as early as possible, with evidence. Many rapists and child-molesters are at large injuring more people because they are not taken to task.
Similarly if someone had taken advantage of the innocence of your childhood and molested you, it is time you put away the heavy thoughts from your mind. You can never be responsible for what a paedophile did. God is not going to punish you for what is not your crime.
There are wicked mothers who force their daughters to prostitute (Lev 19:29). Such daughters should seek the help of others who care for them.
White as Snow
Finally, if you have already had PMS or still living in it, believe me, it’s never too late to turn around. You are not hopeless. You have hope, lots of hope. The blood of Jesus Christ cleanses you from “ALL” sin, if only you feel sorry for what you have done and ask Him to pardon you. “Though your sins are like scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they are red like crimson, they shall be as wool,” says the Lord (Isa 1:18). Today you can decide not to have PMS anymore and trust God to keep up your decision. With you this is impossible. But with God’s help all things are possible. His grace is sufficient for you and His strength shall be made perfect in your weakness. Do not discuss your decision with your sex partner. He/she is sure to convince you that it is not at all wrong. Avoid them.
There are so many good things in this world that you can enjoy. Direct your attention to them. Spend time in the playground. Enjoy good food. Start reading good, clean and interesting books. Go out camping with healthy friends. The forbidden fruit is not forbidden forever. Wait and you’ll have your reward!
April 9 Happy as a lark! |
Apr 09, 2021 |
April 8 Charming Lady |
Apr 08, 2021 |
April 7 Spoil-sport |
Apr 07, 2021 |
367. December 31 Golden Girl |
Dec 31, 2019 |
366. December 30 Golden Girl |
Dec 30, 2019 |
365. December 29 Golden Girl |
Dec 29, 2019 |
051. Blessed Accident |
Feb 21, 2018 |
052. Offense |
Feb 21, 2018 |
053. Great and Small |
Feb 21, 2018 |
094 Ant and Worm |
Jun 01, 2016 |
095 Diligence Pays |
Jun 01, 2016 |
096 Poor Minister |
Jun 01, 2016 |
001 The Modern Prodigal |
Jul 11, 2013 |
002 Lower One Foot, Lord! |
Jul 11, 2013 |
003 Beautiful Cheques |
Jul 11, 2013 |
Introduction |
Jun 06, 2013 |
001. Is GOD For Real |
Jun 05, 2013 |
002.The Language of Love! |
Jun 05, 2013 |
019 - Mala the Great! |
Jun 25, 2015 |
020 - The Rainbow |
Jun 25, 2015 |
021 - What to Do? |
Jun 25, 2015 |
Creepers Without Support |
Sep 30, 2016 |
Mothers,Be Mothers! |
Sep 30, 2016 |
The Mother-in-laws Son! |
Sep 17, 2016 |
I am a Missionary! |
Aug 14, 2018 |
Sewer turned Sower! |
Mar 13, 2017 |
Afraid of Iron Chariots? |
Jun 29, 2016 |
Golden Girl |
Aug 27, 2018 |
Sister Sodom |
Jan 16, 2017 |
Women,Leaven and Heaven! |
Sep 30, 2016 |
Parties Gone Wild! |
Dec 27, 2020 |
A Teenagers Story |
Oct 04, 2017 |
Why Not Wait ? |
Oct 21, 2016 |
The Royal Wedding |
Dec 27, 2020 |
Porn! Is it Sin? |
Dec 27, 2020 |
The Great Escape |
Dec 27, 2020 |
Dr. Lilian Stanley
13 Church Colony
Vellore 632006, India
+91 9843511943
lilianstanley@gmail.com
Blessing Youth Mission
13 Church Colony
Vellore 632006, India
+91-416-2242943, +91-416-2248943
hq@bymonline.org
www.bymonline.org
Click here for more options
To buy books written by Dr. Lilian Stanley, kindly reach to us in the follwing address
Blessing Literature Centre
21/11 West Coovam River Road,
Chintadripet,
Chennai 600 002, India.
+91-44-28450411
blc@bymonline.org
April 9 Happy as a lark! |
Apr 09, 2021 |
April 8 Charming Lady |
Apr 08, 2021 |
April 7 Spoil-sport |
Apr 07, 2021 |
367. December 31 Golden Girl |
Dec 31, 2019 |
366. December 30 Golden Girl |
Dec 30, 2019 |
365. December 29 Golden Girl |
Dec 29, 2019 |
051. Blessed Accident |
Feb 21, 2018 |
052. Offense |
Feb 21, 2018 |
053. Great and Small |
Feb 21, 2018 |
094 Ant and Worm |
Jun 01, 2016 |
095 Diligence Pays |
Jun 01, 2016 |
096 Poor Minister |
Jun 01, 2016 |
001 The Modern Prodigal |
Jul 11, 2013 |
002 Lower One Foot, Lord! |
Jul 11, 2013 |
003 Beautiful Cheques |
Jul 11, 2013 |
Introduction |
Jun 06, 2013 |
001. Is GOD For Real |
Jun 05, 2013 |
002.The Language of Love! |
Jun 05, 2013 |
019 - Mala the Great! |
Jun 25, 2015 |
020 - The Rainbow |
Jun 25, 2015 |
021 - What to Do? |
Jun 25, 2015 |
Creepers Without Support |
Sep 30, 2016 |
Mothers,Be Mothers! |
Sep 30, 2016 |
The Mother-in-laws Son! |
Sep 17, 2016 |
I am a Missionary! |
Aug 14, 2018 |
Sewer turned Sower! |
Mar 13, 2017 |
Afraid of Iron Chariots? |
Jun 29, 2016 |
Golden Girl |
Aug 27, 2018 |
Sister Sodom |
Jan 16, 2017 |
Women,Leaven and Heaven! |
Sep 30, 2016 |
Parties Gone Wild! |
Dec 27, 2020 |
A Teenagers Story |
Oct 04, 2017 |
Why Not Wait ? |
Oct 21, 2016 |
The Royal Wedding |
Dec 27, 2020 |
Porn! Is it Sin? |
Dec 27, 2020 |
The Great Escape |
Dec 27, 2020 |
It was a whirlwind romance - all moon-beams and star dust; until one day in a moment of madness, they succumbed to each other’s charms. That was the last cruise of their love boat. The world seemed to crash around her when she found herself pregnant and he, refusing to accept responsibility. The only way out was abortion, he said. There were endless recriminations and bitterness with the inevitable split. She decided to have the baby against all odds; but he walked out of her life, forever, scot free. She had to carry the stamp of ‘unwed mother’ because of that one unguarded moment; but was he not an unwed father too? What a tragic end to a story that had the markings of a fairy tale!
Think!
It is time for young people to sit up and ponder the question of premarital sex (PMS). Take this story for example. Some may condemn the boy for his cowardice. Some may call the girl foolish for not considering abortion. But these are all peripheral issues. The central issue is something else. They had violated a basic moral and ethical code, that sexual expression is the privilege of the married. If they had waited a little longer...!
Until some years ago premarital sex was outrightly condemned as sin and anyone who had sex before marriage was looked down upon. Therefore there was a fear in the hearts of youth. Even if they secretly committed the sin they felt guilty. But days are fast changing. Young people study together, play together and even stay together. PMS is becoming more and more common. The fear and the shame are going away. Soon the guilt will also be off and young people will be asking why they should wait.
Sex is God’s Idea
God created sex. He created man as male and female and made them attractive to each other, for pleasure and procreation. Since it was created by God, sex cannot be sin. But any gift of God can be misused. Eating is not sin. But gluttony is. Much the same way God has attached responsibility to sex.
Science and Sex
Science has made it easier for the unmarried to indulge in sex without the fear off pregnancy. The pill and the condom have taken the weight off the pressure cooker. More and more youth seem to think that the responsibility part of it can be hacked off and the pleasure enjoyed, now that pregnancy can be avoided. Just because conception can be avoided, PMS does not become a cleaner act.
If you are relying on family planning measures to avoid pregnancy, you are on very shaky ground. They are not fool-proof. They can fail anytime. Neither is abortion a solution. It has its own dangers and can even cost you your life. Abortion is murder.
VenerealDiseases
Youth should be aware of the dangers of venereal diseases (VD) which even the condom cannot always prevent. These are sexually transmitted diseases manifesting by way of white discharge, ulcers in the genitalia, blood in the urine, difficulty in passing urine, swelling of the lymph glands in the loin, fever, malaise and other symptoms. Some diseases like syphilis can affect the heart, brain and the whole body. Some remain symptomless and dormant for a variable period of time. You would have read or seen about the dangers of AIDS. Youth who have casual sex and discover any of these symptoms feel trapped. They are ashamed to go to anyone for help. The danger of some of the diseases is that they heal outwardly without treatment but continue to spread inwardly, giving a false hope that all is fine. Such a person will look healthy but be transmitting the disease. There is no cure for some of these diseases.
Donot bedeceived!
Youthhood is such an innocent period that you tend to trust the person who makes advances to you. Especially if your home offers no love, you tend to fall into the open arms of the first lover who comes your way. Then one day you face the hard choice: “If you love me, come to bed with me.” If you refuse, he may leave you. You are made to believe he will marry you and make you his queen. But this is an emotional tactic. Deflowering innocent virgins is a game for some boys. Every conquest they make is another feather to their already loaded caps. But how soul- destroying it is to the girl when she discovers that he was simply having fun with her. Worse still to know that she was one of his many victims. Remember, virginity once lost is forever lost. You cannot get it back.
Why only playboys? There are too many playgirls who will sell their souls for a sex trip. Boys should keep away from such wide-mouthed bimbos.
So always be on guard, and never let anyone catch you with your defences down. It will cause you eternal remorse and regret. Would you like to have the looks of a man without regrets or would you walk the long corridor of shame?
Pandora’s Box
Pandora’s parents left a box at home and left warning her not to open it. But her curiosity got the better of her. She was stung by the bees. Parents protect you. Others warn you. But one day out of curiosity when you fall for it, the bees of VD, remorse, guilt, unwanted pregnancy, shame, fear, etc., sting you and you wish (too late!) you hadn’t opened the box. Wait till the day of marriage and you’ll find honey inside.
Chicken Friends
There seems to be always a group around you to push you into premature sex - friends who want to watch the fun, who would call you a chicken if you don’t entice a girl or boy. Who is chicken? The one who does the easier thing or the one who stands the tempest of temptations? They won’t dare call you so, ten years later, when you are decently married! Keep away from such chicken friends.
Bewareof Agents!
There are older girls who would take ‘little’ girls by the arms and introduce them to boys. Some think they are doing an angel’s job by carrying letters back and
forth. There are fashionable ladies who promise ‘jobs’ for college girls on the other side of the country! Beware, teens and even preteens!
God’s Feeling
It is good to know what God feels about PMS. The Bible calls it fornication. Fornication is sexual immorality where at least one partner is unmarried. The command is straightforward. “Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body” (1
Cor 6:18). “Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers
God will judge” (Heb 13:4). “Fornicators...shall not inherit the Kingdom of God” (1 Cor
6:9,10).
Men, manlymen!
Many young people feel it is impossible to wait till marriage to have sex. It is a lie of the devil. Jacob loved Rachel. They lived closeby. Both were shepherding. They had every opportunity to have sex. But they waited seven years to consummate their love (Gen 29:20,21). Joseph of Bible fame withstood the advances of an amorous woman. She was his employer’s wife who tried to woo him with her sensuality. But Joseph did not agree to be with her and ran out when she pulled him (39:1-12). Joseph, the foster father of Jesus is an adorable example of self- control (Mt 1:18-25). He had Mary with him, but abstained from sex till Jesus was born. Are these men chicken and sissies? They are the true manly men! A sissy buckles under pressure. A man stands for his convictions. The model lives of many youth and couples today, like lotuses on a dirty pond, is proof enough that a pure life is still possible.
God does not give us impossible commands. Along with his commands He gives us grace to keep them. If we help ourselves, He helps us.
The Great Escape
PMS is a common temptation which presents itself to every young person. But God will never allow us to be tempted beyond our ability. Any temptation has an “IN” door and an “OUT” door (1 Cor 10:13). Best is to avoid the entrance. But if by chance you find yourself ‘in,’ then look for the “Emergency Exit.”
Paul offers a simple and easy solution to escape PMS. Get married! If you are old enough and you can take care of a wife and children, if you have decided on the person and fear you may commit sin, then get married (1 Cor 7:2). When this is not possible, you need to think of other ways of escape.
By systematic reading of the Bible and regular praying, your mind learns to hate PMS and to avoid it. You learn to cooperate with God. Tackle one day at a time. God’s grace is new every morning.
Have a goal in life. Find a worthy cause to live. Channelize your thinking and energy in that direction. That will keep you from the pitfall of living in a fantasy world. Too much of fantasizing may push you off the edge.
Nowadays there is no shortage for films, filmsongs, video cassettes, novels, etc., which are full of filth and obscenities. Avoid these. They are at your doorstep. Kick them away. Avoid friends who enjoy talking and seeing filth. They will stir up the passions in you that one day may become too much to bottle up.
Decide today to say ‘No’ to PMS. Sooner or later you are going to face the temptation. You may be too hot at that moment to think and decide. So prepare your answer today and be ready with it.
Don’t develop intimate relationships with the opposite sex and never be alone with one. A boy and a girl alone are like gunpowder and fire. Don’t go to the closeness of producing a spark. It may end up in an explosion that will wreck your life. Avoid physical intimacy. In spite of all the warnings, often youth end up in defeat and mess up their lives because they give too much weight to their selfcontrol. Don’t trust yourself so much.
The fear that your lover may ditch you should never melt your heart for his pleas for sex. If for that reason he leaves you, congratulate yourself on a lucky escape. He is not worthy to be your partner for a lifetime. Further, how sure are you that they have not had sex with another person?
Keep yourself at a respectable distance from married people also. They are not immune to temptations. Boys have fallen in love with wives, and girls with husbands. It is a futile love leading you nowhere. You can never be legally married to a married person. You will be called a ‘keep’ or by a still dirtier name. Your children will be illegitimate. You cannot publicly go out together, and you face the fury of the angry spouse.
Becourageous!
You should understand that you have the right to refuse sex. Do not be threatened into a sexual relationship. Be bold enough to inform your parents or a trustworthy person if someone threatens you.
Innocent girls have been raped, sometimes repeatedly by their own relatives or friends, and parents have failed to understand their expression of despair. If any man, woman, boy or girl makes you uncomfortable, tell your parents openly in a way they can understand. They should not think you are fussing. There is no shame in it.
Girls and boys are forced to write to someone at a distance crying for help, because parents are not close to their hearts. Nowadays since both the parents are working, teenagers are alone at home and so many things are happening. Be careful when you are alone at home or tell your parents to leave you in a safer place.
Girls should guard themselves against rape. Many, who could have escaped, succumbed because fear paralysed them. Scream and shout if help is near.
Rape victims need not feel guilty. You are not responsible for what happened (Dt
22:25-27). You were helpless. Never let a rape defeat you. Rise above it and take charge of your life.
If you have the courage and the support of parents and friends, then go to the law, as early as possible, with evidence. Many rapists and child-molesters are at large injuring more people because they are not taken to task.
Similarly if someone had taken advantage of the innocence of your childhood and molested you, it is time you put away the heavy thoughts from your mind. You can never be responsible for what a paedophile did. God is not going to punish you for what is not your crime.
There are wicked mothers who force their daughters to prostitute (Lev 19:29). Such daughters should seek the help of others who care for them.
White as Snow
Finally, if you have already had PMS or still living in it, believe me, it’s never too late to turn around. You are not hopeless. You have hope, lots of hope. The blood of Jesus Christ cleanses you from “ALL” sin, if only you feel sorry for what you have done and ask Him to pardon you. “Though your sins are like scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they are red like crimson, they shall be as wool,” says the Lord (Isa 1:18). Today you can decide not to have PMS anymore and trust God to keep up your decision. With you this is impossible. But with God’s help all things are possible. His grace is sufficient for you and His strength shall be made perfect in your weakness. Do not discuss your decision with your sex partner. He/she is sure to convince you that it is not at all wrong. Avoid them.
There are so many good things in this world that you can enjoy. Direct your attention to them. Spend time in the playground. Enjoy good food. Start reading good, clean and interesting books. Go out camping with healthy friends. The forbidden fruit is not forbidden forever. Wait and you’ll have your reward!
Dr. Lilian Stanley
13 Church Colony
Vellore 632006, India
+91 9843511943
lilianstanley@gmail.com
Blessing Youth Mission
13 Church Colony
Vellore 632006, India
+91-416-2242943, +91-416-2248943
hq@bymonline.org
www.bymonline.org
Click here for more options
To buy books written by Dr. Lilian Stanley, kindly reach to us in the follwing address
Blessing Literature Centre
21/11 West Coovam River Road,
Chintadripet,
Chennai 600 002, India.
+91-44-28450411
blc@bymonline.org