Fulltime dangers!

Reading: 1 Samuel 12:3-5

“If you think you are standing firm, be careful that you don’t fall”

(1 Cor 10:12)

As the revival catches up, more and more women are opting for fulltime ministry or wives of ministers. It is good to be forewarned of the dangers of fulltime ministry and be forearmed —

  • The first is probably covetousness. People are blessed through us and money starts flowing in. The temptation of unaccountability follows. Elisha refused gifts and Jesus threw back satan. Let money be handled by someone else. Let your mind be on ministry, not in raising money. The lifestyle of ministers gradually changes as ministry picks up. Their old house is demolished and a mansion comes up. Luxury cars and helpers buzz around. Maintain a simple lifestyle. Be approachable to people. Remember the life of Jesus and the early missionaries who came to evangelize India.
  • Do not neglect your children. Give them quality time and a good quantity of it.
  • You will be thrown together with many men and the danger of adultery lurks at every corner. Guard yourself. Don’t believe the lies of the devil that come in the form of well-garbed excuses and spiritually-sounding statements. The devil is clever in blunting your conscience. Paul says, “I strive always to keep my conscience clear before God and man” (Acts 24:16). Once you neglect the voice of your conscience in small matters, the next to follow will be bigger matters till you slide into the black hole of backsliding. Then you deceive yourself into thinking that you are right.
  • Once God starts using you, your status and style go up. Pride follows unless you are extremely cautious. It prevents you from asking forgiveness, listening to counsel or even smiling at common folk. One condition for the Israelite king was to not consider himself better than his fellow Israelites (Dt 17:20).
  • Last but not the least is the time you spend with the Lord. As ministry grows don’t allow your personal and family time to dwindle by increasing commitments. Be wise to say, ‘No,’ without guilt. Learn delegation. Let your first love be burning always. The secret of your successful ministry is your secret time with God. If you are careless here, you will become a dry brook. “I hold this against you: You have forsaken the love you had at first” (Rev 2:4).

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  •   A Teenagers Story
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  •   Why Not Wait ?
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      Sep 30, 2016
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      Sep 30, 2016
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  •   The Mother-in-laws Son!
      Sep 17, 2016
    Many a wife would introduce her mate as her mother-in-law?s son, rather than as her husband. Nearly 80% of Indian husbands continue to be (their mother?s) sons. According to a recent statistics, not less than 10% of suicides in India are due to the proble more...
  • Click here for more 

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  •   I am a Missionary!
      Aug 14, 2018
    1. I am a missionary and so I work for God and not for an organisation. Though I am under the discipline of an organisation, whatever I do, I do with the fear of God. God is my Master and so I subject myself to the leaders. I quell any rebellious spirit t more...
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      Mar 13, 2017
    To understand John chapter 4, we must first understand about the Samaritans. Samaria was between Judea and Galilee so much so any Jew travelling from Galilee to Judea or Judea to Galilee needed to go through it. Many Jews, because of the aversion they ha more...
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    7 Dec 1988 Dear Aunty, It?s been 2 months since we were in touch. I?m saturated with ?news? to give you and nearly bursting with curiosity to hear what?s been happening at your end. The last letter you wrote to me was an eye-opener. To more...
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    On the day she arrived, she was at my doorstep! ?Hi aunty? ?Oh Mala, how are you?? She shook my hand so long and hard that it ached, and planted a kiss on my cheek - so unusual of her. ?Why didn?t you write aunty?? ?Oh, I knew you?d be coming soon. So more...
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    7 Jan 1989 Dear Aunty, Christmas holidays were great fun. It was lovely getting in touch with friends and relatives. On New Year?s Day I gleaned thro? my diary- There was so much to thank God for! My friend Esther is in Rajasthan. She wrote asking for g more...
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    Story Behind The Stories more...
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  •   096 Poor Minister
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  •   051. Blessed Accident
      Feb 21, 2018
    A sailor wanted to go round the world in a boat and set up a record. Sadly, a storm lashed his boat and it broke to pieces. The sailor swam and reached a small uninhabited island. He ate wild fruits and roots and survived. He made a more...
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    An elaborate feast was arranged for all the palace staff on the occasion of Queen Elizabeth?s birthday. It was a grand affair. The table was loaded with a variety of dishes. Everybody enjoyed the feast and sat down for dessert. In the meanwhile the table more...
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    A small zero collided with a big zero. ?Don?t you have any sense? Don?t you know I am much bigger than you?? asked the big zero; ?You must be ashamed of yourself.? more...
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  Address for Correspondence Contributions

Dr. Lilian Stanley
13 Church Colony
Vellore 632006, India
 +91 9843511943
  lilianstanley@gmail.com

Blessing Youth Mission

Blessing Youth Mission
13 Church Colony
Vellore 632006, India
 +91-416-2242943, +91-416-2248943
  hq@bymonline.org
  www.bymonline.org

For Donation & Contributions...

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Account Type: Current Account
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Bank: State Bank of India
Branch: Siruthozhil,Vellore - 632 006
IFSF: SBIN0007274

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To buy books written by Dr. Lilian Stanley, kindly reach to us in the follwing address

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 அனுதின அலங்காரம் (தமிழில்)
   Updated

  •   October 25 This is your Husband!
      Oct 25, 2021
    This is your Husband! more...
  •   October 24 Touch Jesus!
      Oct 24, 2021
    Touch Jesus! more...
  •   October 23 Not holy enough?
      Oct 23, 2021
    Not holy enough? more...
  • Click here for more 

 Daily Devotional for Women (English)
   Updated

  •   299.Oct 24 Touch Jesus!
      Oct 25, 2019
    Touch Jesus! more...
  •   298.Oct 23 Not holy enough?
      Oct 23, 2019
    Not holy enough? more...
  •   295. Oct 22 Dear Deborah!
      Oct 22, 2019
    Start sharing the Good News to anyone you can more...
  • Click here for more 

 General
   Updated

  •   Why I Believe The Bible
      Oct 15, 2021
    I found in the Bible something which I have not found in any other book I have come across, something unique! more...
  •   Onward, Forward, Shout Aloud Hosannah!
      Aug 09, 2021
    Onward, Forward, Shout Aloud Hosannah! more...
  •   Wife Beating
      Jul 11, 2021
    Wife Beating more...
  • Click here for more 

 Women

  •   Golden Girl
      Aug 27, 2018
    As India basks in the glory of the golden girls who kissed their gold medals in the 2018 Asian Games, let us meditate upon the Golden Girl who glitters in the Scriptures. The Psalmist profiles her in his 45th Psalm: ?At Your right hand is the royal bride more...
  •   Sister Sodom
      Jan 16, 2017
    Sodom is always associated with wicked ''men''. But here God calls her as 'Sister Sodom!' more...
  •   Women,Leaven and Heaven!
      Sep 30, 2016
    Women,Leaven and Heaven! 'The Kingdom of heaven is like leaven, which a woman took and hid in three measures of meal till it was all leavened ' ,said Jesus (Mt 13:33). more...
  • Click here for more 

 Youth

  •   Parties Gone Wild!
      Dec 27, 2020
    Parties Gone Wild! more...
  •   A Teenagers Story
      Oct 04, 2017
    In the Bible we read about many teenagers. One such is David. When we are introduced to him, he is probably fifteen or sixteen, trying his more...
  •   Why Not Wait ?
      Oct 21, 2016
    It was a whirlwind romance - all moon-beams and star dust; until one day in a moment of madness, they succumbed to each other?s charms. That was the last cruise of their love boat. The world seemed to crash around her when she fo more...
  • Click here for more 

 Family

  •   Creepers Without Support
      Sep 30, 2016
    Creepers Without Support The Bible mentions ?pure religion? only once. ?Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself unspotted from the world? (Js 1:2 more...
  •   Mothers,Be Mothers!
      Sep 30, 2016
    Mothers,Be Mothers! In the first chapter of Proverbs we meet the dynamic personality called mother. She is presented not as a wobbly- footed weakling but as one who passes the law. Even inside the home she does not appear as a second class citizen, ra more...
  •   The Mother-in-laws Son!
      Sep 17, 2016
    Many a wife would introduce her mate as her mother-in-law?s son, rather than as her husband. Nearly 80% of Indian husbands continue to be (their mother?s) sons. According to a recent statistics, not less than 10% of suicides in India are due to the proble more...
  • Click here for more 

 Ministry

  •   I am a Missionary!
      Aug 14, 2018
    1. I am a missionary and so I work for God and not for an organisation. Though I am under the discipline of an organisation, whatever I do, I do with the fear of God. God is my Master and so I subject myself to the leaders. I quell any rebellious spirit t more...
  •   Sewer turned Sower!
      Mar 13, 2017
    To understand John chapter 4, we must first understand about the Samaritans. Samaria was between Judea and Galilee so much so any Jew travelling from Galilee to Judea or Judea to Galilee needed to go through it. Many Jews, because of the aversion they ha more...
  •   Afraid of Iron Chariots?
      Jun 29, 2016
    Afraid of Iron Chariots? more...
  • Click here for more 

 Sweet Sixteen

  •   019 - Mala the Great!
      Jun 25, 2015
    7 Dec 1988 Dear Aunty, It?s been 2 months since we were in touch. I?m saturated with ?news? to give you and nearly bursting with curiosity to hear what?s been happening at your end. The last letter you wrote to me was an eye-opener. To more...
  •   020 - The Rainbow
      Jun 25, 2015
    On the day she arrived, she was at my doorstep! ?Hi aunty? ?Oh Mala, how are you?? She shook my hand so long and hard that it ached, and planted a kiss on my cheek - so unusual of her. ?Why didn?t you write aunty?? ?Oh, I knew you?d be coming soon. So more...
  •   021 - What to Do?
      Jun 25, 2015
    7 Jan 1989 Dear Aunty, Christmas holidays were great fun. It was lovely getting in touch with friends and relatives. On New Year?s Day I gleaned thro? my diary- There was so much to thank God for! My friend Esther is in Rajasthan. She wrote asking for g more...
  • Click here for more 

 Little Stories For Little Hearts

  •   Introduction
      Jun 06, 2013
    Story Behind The Stories more...
  •   001. Is GOD For Real
      Jun 05, 2013
    There were two scientists. One was a believer in the true God and another was an aetheist more...
  •   002.The Language of Love!
      Jun 05, 2013
    A circus was running in town, and crowds elbowed each other to buy tickets. One day an unusual incident happened more...
  • Click here for more 

 Little Stories for Little Hearts Vol 2

  •   001 The Modern Prodigal
      Jul 11, 2013
    The Modern Prodigal more...
  •   002 Lower One Foot, Lord!
      Jul 11, 2013
    Lower One Foot, Lord! more...
  •   003 Beautiful Cheques
      Jul 11, 2013
    Beautiful Cheques more...
  • Click here for more 

 Little Stories for Little Hearts Vol 3

  •   094 Ant and Worm
      Jun 01, 2016
    An ant was majestically walking along a forest. She saw a worm crawling. The ant told the worm: ?Look at me. I am so brisk and smart. You should be faster and dress up beautifully. You look ugly.? Despising the worm the ant moved along. more...
  •   095 Diligence Pays
      Jun 01, 2016
    Ragu was very jealous of the humble minister, Ra more...
  •   096 Poor Minister
      Jun 01, 2016
    A poor minister of God used to go to a rich businessman asking for contribution for the work he was doing in villages. The rich man would give excuses and ask hi more...
  • Click here for more 

 Little Stories for Little Hearts Vol 4

  •   051. Blessed Accident
      Feb 21, 2018
    A sailor wanted to go round the world in a boat and set up a record. Sadly, a storm lashed his boat and it broke to pieces. The sailor swam and reached a small uninhabited island. He ate wild fruits and roots and survived. He made a more...
  •   052. Offense
      Feb 21, 2018
    An elaborate feast was arranged for all the palace staff on the occasion of Queen Elizabeth?s birthday. It was a grand affair. The table was loaded with a variety of dishes. Everybody enjoyed the feast and sat down for dessert. In the meanwhile the table more...
  •   053. Great and Small
      Feb 21, 2018
    A small zero collided with a big zero. ?Don?t you have any sense? Don?t you know I am much bigger than you?? asked the big zero; ?You must be ashamed of yourself.? more...
  • Click here for more 

Fulltime dangers!

Reading: 1 Samuel 12:3-5

“If you think you are standing firm, be careful that you don’t fall”

(1 Cor 10:12)

As the revival catches up, more and more women are opting for fulltime ministry or wives of ministers. It is good to be forewarned of the dangers of fulltime ministry and be forearmed —

  • The first is probably covetousness. People are blessed through us and money starts flowing in. The temptation of unaccountability follows. Elisha refused gifts and Jesus threw back satan. Let money be handled by someone else. Let your mind be on ministry, not in raising money. The lifestyle of ministers gradually changes as ministry picks up. Their old house is demolished and a mansion comes up. Luxury cars and helpers buzz around. Maintain a simple lifestyle. Be approachable to people. Remember the life of Jesus and the early missionaries who came to evangelize India.
  • Do not neglect your children. Give them quality time and a good quantity of it.
  • You will be thrown together with many men and the danger of adultery lurks at every corner. Guard yourself. Don’t believe the lies of the devil that come in the form of well-garbed excuses and spiritually-sounding statements. The devil is clever in blunting your conscience. Paul says, “I strive always to keep my conscience clear before God and man” (Acts 24:16). Once you neglect the voice of your conscience in small matters, the next to follow will be bigger matters till you slide into the black hole of backsliding. Then you deceive yourself into thinking that you are right.
  • Once God starts using you, your status and style go up. Pride follows unless you are extremely cautious. It prevents you from asking forgiveness, listening to counsel or even smiling at common folk. One condition for the Israelite king was to not consider himself better than his fellow Israelites (Dt 17:20).
  • Last but not the least is the time you spend with the Lord. As ministry grows don’t allow your personal and family time to dwindle by increasing commitments. Be wise to say, ‘No,’ without guilt. Learn delegation. Let your first love be burning always. The secret of your successful ministry is your secret time with God. If you are careless here, you will become a dry brook. “I hold this against you: You have forsaken the love you had at first” (Rev 2:4).

  Address for Correspondence Contributions

Dr. Lilian Stanley
13 Church Colony
Vellore 632006, India
 +91 9843511943
  lilianstanley@gmail.com

Blessing Youth Mission

Blessing Youth Mission
13 Church Colony
Vellore 632006, India
 +91-416-2242943, +91-416-2248943
  hq@bymonline.org
  www.bymonline.org

For Donation & Contributions...

Home & NRE donors

Name: Blessing Youth Mission
Account Type: Current Account
A/c No.: 37268642054
Bank: State Bank of India
Branch: Siruthozhil,Vellore - 632 006
IFSC No.: SBIN0007274

Overseas Donors

Name: Blessing Youth Mission
A/c No.: 40103204148
A/c type: FCRA Current Account
Branch: New Delhi Main Branch
Branch Code: 00691
IFSC No.: SBIN0000691
SWIFT Code: SBININBB104

Gulf Donors

A/c Name: T.Dickson Daniel Moses
Account Type: Saving Account
A/c No.: 35374362080
Bank: State Bank of India
Branch: Siruthozhil,Vellore - 632 006
IFSF: SBIN0007274

Click here for more options

  Blessing Literature Centre

To buy books written by Dr. Lilian Stanley, kindly reach to us in the follwing address

Blessing Literature Centre
21/11 West Coovam River Road,
Chintadripet,
Chennai 600 002, India.
 +91-44-28450411, Mob:8806270699
  blc@bymonline.org